Delete the apps. Keep the hope. Every member is personally interviewed, every match hand-selected — by a real matchmaker who has met you both.
Bashert means the one you were destined for. Finding them shouldn't feel like a part-time job.
A thoughtful application — who you are, how you live Jewishly, and what actually matters to you in a partner.
A relaxed fifteen-minute video conversation. I get to know the person behind the profile — the part no form can capture.
When I find someone right for you, you each receive a short introduction. Both say yes, and I connect you directly. No browsing, no swiping.
No fake profiles, no ghosts, no married men hiding a ring. I have personally interviewed every single member of this pool.
I meet everyone face to face, and I only introduce people I believe belong across the table from each other.
Never public, never browsable. Shared only with a match I've selected — with your consent.
Observance, kashrut, what kind of Jewish home you want — matched from the beginning, not discovered on date three.

I produce Jewish Speed Dating Boston, and I've stood in the room while real connections happened — first laughs, exchanged numbers, second dates. I've also watched wonderful people go home overlooked, because chemistry doesn't fit in a profile grid.
Bashert Matchmaking is my answer: a private, interviewed, hand-matched pool of Jewish singles across Greater Boston. I meet every member. I make every match myself. And I only introduce two people when I'd be excited to attend their wedding.
I comb the pool, vet every candidate, and only interrupt you when it's someone worth meeting. Your only job is showing up to the date.
Hand It Off →Less than one bad first-date bar tab per month.
Join now and pay nothing during the founding period. Your card goes on file at signup, but your first charge is August 17 — the day matching begins. Cancel before then and you never pay a cent. Join after August 17, and billing starts on day one.
Founding membership closes when matching begins August 17. After that, the free period is gone for good.
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